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10 Habits That Changed My Life (And Can Change Yours Too)

I started reading self improvement books during the pandemic, and the authors inspired me to be more intentional with my habits. To really notice, identify, and analyze the habits that make up my day, and to better organize them to improve myself and invest in myself. Here are 10 habits that have changed my life.

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Shirley Xu Shirley Xu

The Neuroscience of Discipline: Why It Matters for Gen Z and Christians Today

From a neuroscience perspective, discipline is the friction between different brain regions responsible for logic and emotional impulses. Rather than being a fixed personality trait, discipline is a skill rooted in the physical structure of your brain that can be strengthened through repetitive practice.

From a Christian perspective, discipline is God’s refinement of your soul and mind, body and spirit to become who you want to be, in His image.

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Shirley Xu Shirley Xu

The Art of Journaling - 5 Effective Journaling Techniques to Reduce Stress and Anxiety

In Deep Work by Cal Newport, he emphasizes the importance of entering a state of “deep work,” free from distractions of shallow work such as social media, email, and messaging, a period of time where the mind is fully focused and clear. I find that the easiest way for me to enter deep work is to start writing things down. Otherwise known as journaling.

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Changing Careers in Midlife: The Neuroscience of Reinvention

Changing careers in midlife isn’t starting over—it’s leveraging experience, wisdom, and neuroscience. As the brain evolves with stronger pattern recognition, emotional regulation, and purpose-driven motivation, midlife becomes an ideal time for reinvention. This article explores the science behind career transitions, including neuroplasticity, dopamine shifts, and the default mode network, while offering practical strategies to pivot successfully and build a more meaningful, aligned career.

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